April Invitation into Your Dreams
by Mary Jo Heyen
Dream – I’m with a group of unfamiliar people spelunking in caves and I’m excited. It’s dark, mysterious and eerie. Someone is holding a lantern and we are exploring. The caves are spacious and go on forever, deeper and deeper. We have a guide, 60’s, long white beard, wearing an overcoat and a brimmed hat. He seems like a sage and I trust him. He’s an old hand at this; he knows the caves. He shows me a pool, 2 feet in diameter, shallow, clear trickling water. There are beautiful, brightly colored anemones with waving tentacles clinging to the pool wall and little fish, beautiful tiger fish, vibrant colored spines, almost like they’re lighting up the pool. I feel in awe of the beauty. The guide says, “Put your hand in the pool.” I’m scared to do it but I do because he told me and I trust him. My whole arm is in the water and I feel electric stings all over my arm and even my legs which aren’t in the water. I feel shock, pain, am afraid, “Oh fuck, I shouldn’t have done this.” I pull my arm out in pain.
Dream Practice: Be in the moment of hearing the sage say, “Put your hand in the pool.” Feel your trust and do it. When you feel the pain of the electric stings…stop…don’t pull your arm out…turn to the sage who supports you here and take a breath into the pain…and then another.
It makes sense to pull one’s hand out of the pool full of stinging anemones, to not want to feel the sting of pain. The sage in the dream, this archetypal teacher, tells the dreamer to do the very thing that he must know will cause the dreamer pain. Why would he do that? Why would we give a dream practice that asks the dreamer to return to the place of pain?
Because this dreamer, like all of us, is already in pain, and had learned to be numb to it, to shut it down. He, like many of us, has been pulling his hand out of the pain pool for most of his life. When the original pain began in his childhood the dreamer believed he was alone, that there was no understanding and support…and there truly was no one he could turn to…and he adapted to his environment which meant closing off from his feeling self…his soul. Often times it is not the traumatic event that traumatizes us. What traumatizes us is that in that terrible moment, we felt alone…
Our dreams, in their wisdom, take us back to these feeling places, to help us recover these lost parts. It can take some time and at first we may need to just feel our fear…our fear of pain, our fear of being afraid. This dreamer was in a place where he was beginning to trust his inner teachers and so followed his guidance…and then reacted as he had been to conditioned to…to pull back from the difficult feeling.
Pain is part of the feeling palette of soul. The soul feels everything and if we’ve learned to shut down to difficult feelings such as pain, loss, grief and fear, then we are also shut off from parts of our soul…and we are no longer whole. We will feel pain, we will feel fear…and as we learn to trust these feelings…let them move through us in their own wisdom…allow them to teach us what it is they want for us to know…we also feel more deeply true love, true joy…our connectedness and our wholeness.
This dream invites the dreamer into his pain…no longer alone. He is invited to feel his pain with the presence and support of his inner teacher. To take a breath into his pain, to turn and feel the support for him, his capacity to be with all of who he is and this helps heal him, helps return him to wholeness.
Here at Natural Dreamwork we invite you to invite us to step into your dreams with you, explore together what it is that wants to be healed and take birth in you…who it is that wants to be in relationship with you.
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